Better Wait Long Than Marry Wrong

"Take Your Time with Marriage"

Marriage is not a race—it’s a lifelong commitment that deserves deep thought, patience, and maturity. Many are pressured by society to marry by a certain age, have children, and appear “successful” in the eyes of others. But society won’t be there when problems arise. In fact, it may only offer judgment, not support.

It’s far better to take your time than to rush into a lifelong union only to find yourself in a miserable situation. Ask yourself: would you rather remain single and at peace for 15 years, or marry in haste and endure 30 years of sadness and sleepless nights?

The reality is, many people end up unhappy in marriage because they gave in to pressure—be it from family, unplanned pregnancy, or the fear of being left behind. Others enter marriage for superficial reasons, concerned more about the wedding than the relationship itself. But those guests who came to eat and dance won’t be there when financial troubles begin.

Your twenties are crucial for discovering who you are, pursuing education, building a career, and laying the foundation for your future. Don’t let the noise of expectations distract you from this important journey.

The Bible, particularly in 1 Corinthians 7:28–35, reminds us that marriage brings challenges and divided focus. Staying single allows a person to fully serve the Lord without worldly distraction. Even key biblical figures like Jesus, Paul, Mary, and Martha remained unmarried and lived purposeful lives.

So don’t rush. Marry when you're truly ready—emotionally, spiritually, and mentally. Choose someone who will stand by you not just when times are good, but also when life gets hard. In marriage, it’s not how fast you get there that matters; it’s how well you prepare for the road ahead.

Bottom line: It’s better to go slow and be sure than to rush and regret.